How to Find the Love of Your Life - Just Want to Talk About Love

Written By paujin on Friday, August 10, 2012 | 6:52 AM

Ah, love is the most beautiful thing in the world. It makes you happy, inspires you, gives you strength. Its gives you the nicest feeling and warms you all over. Love teaches you to be patient. Love makes you strong.

Love is an emotion of a strong affection and personal attachment.Love is also a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection —"the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another".Love may describe actions towards others or oneself based on compassion or affection



How can you find love? Have you been waiting for the right man or woman for a long time now?

I have divided this into three subtopics for easy reading. They are interrelated.

First: Where can you find your love?

Here are some ways which you can find the love of your life:

1. Join groups that you are interested in

Are you interested in photography? Biking? Join some groups that share your interests. You may find the person of your dreams in there.

2. Ask friends to introduce someone.

You can ask your friends if they know someone who fits you. If a friend matches you up, go for it. You may find the love of your life or if not, gain a new friend.

3. At Work

Look around, one of your colleagues may catch your eye. or tell them to introduce somebody to you.

4. In School

Your classmate, seat mate or schoolmate may be the one you are looking for.

5. Joining Online Dating Services

Get a membership and start dating. But, be careful of scammers.

6. Joining Organized Dating

This is a new way to meet someone. Whether your friends organize a group or somebody in your community organize one, join in! You may never know.

Just enjoy yourself. Finding the love of your life is never easy. Just relax and be open minded.

I Hope you can find your love soon and wish you all the best!

Don't be impatient. But before you find the love of your life, you must find yourself first. This topic will be tackled in a separate capsule below.




Second: Finding Yourself

Before you can find what you are looking for, you must do the most important thing: FINDING YOURSELF. So what is finding yourself?

Finding yourself is knowing who you really are, what you need and want and what you expect. It is understanding yourself fully.

Please answer the following questions honestly:

1. Who are you?

2. What do you expect in yourself?

3. What do you expect in others?

4. What do you expect in your future mate? What qualities does he/she need to have?

5. What do you want to achieve?

6. What makes you happy?

7.What are your goals? What do you want in life?

8. What are your values? Should your mate's values be the same as yours?

Remember, There is no perfect person in this world. Everbody has his/her own flaws.

But, by understanding yourself, it will be easy for you to love others and knowing what you really want in a person.
Third: Loving Yourself

If you are looking for love, you have to do the most important thing: LOVE YOURSELF. You need to love yourself first. Love your body even with flaws and imperfections. You need to provide your needs. You have to respect yourself.

By loving yourself, you showed others that you deserved to loved and respected.

How do you want to find your love?

Through friends
Through Online Dating Service
Others

Comment Below if you already find your love and how did you find your love

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